A girl putting you in the friend zone it’s a sucky feeling.

A friend zone is a form of rejection that girls use against guys they don’t want to reject fully.

You need to figure out why you’re in the friend zone.

Then ask yourself what type of man you need to be and look like to not be in the friend zone anymore.

It’s the only way you’ll truly understand how to get out of it.

What do you need to improve as an individual so girls can stop putting you in the friend zone?

The worst part is that the girl knows your intention but’ll still keep you around as a friend.

That fucks up your mental health.

But as a man everything that happens to you is your fault.

You’re the one that needs to take responsibility.

The first thing you need to do is just disappear and focus on yourself.

Stop replying to her messages, meeting her, texting her, and giving her instant gratification.

Go work on yourself.

Hit the gym.

Take some fighting classes.

Start a business.

Once you disappear and start to focus on yourself, you’ll see her start to chase you.

It almost always happens.

The second thing you need to do is to create a new identity for yourself.

Working on yourself but not changing your identity internally will still keep you in the friend zone.

You need to work on your self-image and how you see yourself.

Start seeing yourself as the guy that’s better than getting friend-zoned.

You do this by changing your personality to not be focused on girls.

Don’t chase love, chase purpose.

Update your identity to no longer be needy.

Neediness is a repulsive trait in men.

Women are not attracted to needy men.

Having a feminine woman who is needy for you is what a masculine man needs, not the other way around.

The third way to get out of the friend zone is to make your intentions known.

You disappeared and worked on yourself and you updated your identity to no longer be the guy that’s needy or desperate…

Now it’s crucial to make your intentions known smoothly.

Don’t let your old identity make your old intentions known.

You need to have more of a cool-guy attitude.

That personality is very attractive.

The last way to get out of the friend zone is to forget her and move on.

You need to be okay with losing this friend and just move on.

You can either get bitter or get better.

You can spend some time having negative energy towards the girl, or you can work on yourself so much to the point a girl never friends zone you ever again.

Leave the situation better.

Leave having a new understanding of how to polarize women to either loving you or just not being interested in you and rejecting you.

Either or, not somewhere in the middle.

There’s no value in that.

If you use these 4 steps to get out of the friend zone, you will see results.

Hope this helped.

As always you got this and I’m rooting for you.

Keep going.

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